I got snipped in my 30s before having any kids. I have numerous physical and mental issues that I didn’t really care to pass down. Before I was married, I did date a couple women in my past who did have kids, so I’m not opposed to that side of it. At this point, in my mid 40s, adopting seems fairly unlikely.

I don’t worry about or miss anything specifically. We have plenty of nieces and nephews (and now some great- ones on my side since my younger stepsister and her son had kids quite young) that I can spoil.

I do somewhat worry about setting up proper care for us as we get older, particularly my wife who will almost certainly outlive me by a bigger margin, but having kids wouldn’t guarantee that or anything anyway, particularly with the ratrace that is the current Japanese job market and culture.