• @Ajen@sh.itjust.works
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    63 days ago

    I’m curious, what exactly are you worried about with your friend? Are the abnormalities you saw linked to a treatable disease?

    • @Neuromancer49@midwest.social
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      163 days ago

      Nope, not related to any disease I’ve ever seen. The best guess i have is fetal alcohol syndrome but it isn’t a perfect match. It’s just weird knowing he has a very odd shaped brain. And there’s a lot of unknowns surrounding it.

      What if he sees another doctor and they mention it to him? Would he be upset I didn’t say anything? What if it is linked to some disease and I didn’t tell him, and he gets sick?

      What if it’s hereditary and his kid has it, does it explain the motor delays? The premature birth? The problems they have with him sleeping?

      Just a lot of unknowns.

      • @NoSpotOfGround@lemmy.world
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        82 days ago

        Could you tell him just “you should have another MRI at a clinic”?

        That rule does not seem very ethical to me, in any case.

      • @Ajen@sh.itjust.works
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        103 days ago

        Personally, if I had something like that, that wasn’t causing me problems and wasn’t linked to future problems, I wouldn’t want to know. Especially because of how unknown it is. It sounds like there’s no way that information could be of use to anyone other than a researcher, so it actually seems right that you can’t share it.

        On the other hand, I’m glad your other friend got their sinus checked out.